STOP Being a Tomboy and START Being a LADY?

i don't know what to tell you other than ask a stylist to help you. i don't know what you look like or your personality. you could wear cute skirts (not hooker-ish), nice flowery dresses, small heeled shoes (no stilettos), soften your hair (high lights, bangs) get contacts (if you wear glasses and can afford them) light makeup (something to bring out your eyes and cheekbones) and take care of your teeth!! no gold teeth or grills (whatever they call it). teeth should be pearly whites! speak softly, until the time not to (i.e.-when someone crosses the line and just needs a good tongue lashing, lol!) be gentle and fight the urge to beat up on the boys, and you will do fine!!