Question for females... I could really use your input?

I want the good guy who takes care of me as much as I take care of him. I dont care how tough he is and yes, he should be family oriented. I want him to help me cook and clean and truly take the time to get to know me. I am divorced and probably way older than you and most of the people on this site, but one thing I have learned is.....I want the nice guy, the one that is thinking of my feelings and the one that treats me right, but I also know, after being on blind dates that you have to be attracted to the person. Ive had too many no-gos because he was either a jerk, all talk no action type of guy, or one that I just didnt feel a spark with and I can tell you I am definitely ready for the good guy that is going to take care of me for once in my life. So, you, my friend, just needs to find the girl that will appreciate you and most likely one that has been through enough crap with jerk guys that she will take the time to get to know you. Good Luck to you and I hope everything works out for you. I mean that sincerely. Best Wishes!